How often do you get a call or email and the "potential Home Buyer" is not going to be buying for a couple of months? A couple of years? Do you just 'let it go' because it "ain't happening" and you just want instant gratification? Well, I have news for you! You don't ever REALLY know if a potential buyer is going to REALLY buy right then and there anyway.
The scenarios may differ but they can sure take on a life of its own with a Realtor® who gives great attention and care to the "just looking, not ready, not relocation for x amount of months, years" potential clients. A good Realtor ® takes the time to LISTEN to all the needs of the home buyer. This isn't a grocery line to hoard the consumer in and push them out.
The examples below are scenarios of real life situations of mine that turned out differently than the beginning conversation.
- "I won't be moving to Hawaii for two years but wanted to be proactive in my home search". Currently, these clients will arrive in ...now it's 10 months and we have gotten to know each other, fine tuned their criteria and are ready to go once they get here.
- "I have lived here in Hawaii for a year and I'm ready to buy but want to take my time".
We found property the first day of showing and the transaction closed in 45 days. - "I don't want to buy for three months because that's when I will get a raise in pay". First day out on showing appointments and we put in an offer, accepted and closed in 30 days.
- "We're just looking at Open Houses today and not sure if we're ready". After talking with them, they called me the next day and wanted to put in an offer. They have been proud home owners for the last two years.
- "My brother is wanting to buy but don't know when they'll be ready because it'll be their first home buying experience". It took six months but patience and understanding landed them the area, sq. ft. interior/land they wanted AND the price range they could afford.
- "I need an agent who will give us the time to look at different neighborhoods around the island so we can examine all our options". They called me the next day after going to an Open House and asked if I could make an appointment to look at it again. We went within a couple of hours, put in an offer....and they subsequently bought...and two years later sold with me.
- "The agents I called wouldn't give me the time of day because we aren't moving there for three months". This transaction just recorded yesterday (you can watch the video .....here LIVE on VIDEO: A Hawaii Military Relocation Story Comes to Life
These are just a few examples that may be similar to ones that you brushed off and ignored.
Then they called ...... ME.
First impressions aren't always as they seem are they?


Good Morning , We are sooooooo on the same page. My post that I have been trying to get finished is not too far off from the one you wrote, except that it may be the ultimate optomization of exactly what you do. It has been years since I have been this busy, sorry about missing so many of your posts, i will hopefully catch up this weekend.
Sending all my best your way!
You make a good point. Buyers sometimes think they have to be very proactive - those are the planners - and start a search years in advance, or may attempt to deflect a sale's pitch by saying "we're just looking". But all they're saying is I want to take my time, or I need to work with someone who won't be pushy, or I do't have enough information yet to make a decision. Good for you for taking the time to get to the core of what they really needed in a Realtor.
Good morning my bestest of friends! I have to catch up severely....I couldn't hang out for those couple of days AR was not working well. Time...I didn't have for that. :) Closed one yesterday....go watch the video! I got the flip video and it's sooo wonderful William!
Will go to yours now :)
I have a question, how do you get them to make an appointment if they say they are "just looking" at an open house, or they look on your website, and indicate their buying time is "unknown" and all they leave is their email address, no other means to contact them? I am ready willing and able to do what it takes to convert these folks into clients..but how????
The absolutely favorite buyer for me and the agents and brokers in my network are relocating home buyers.
EXCELLENT!!!
I completely agree.....I myself am very much that type of buyer that puts up a filter to leave myself an out, but can purchase as soon as I start looking, and fill out a form. As a result of this, I speak with any borrower or potential borrower that is looking to purchase anytime within the next 9 months.
I am sorry that I have been noticeably absent from AR that I have missed so many quality postings from yourself and so many others.
Aloha!
Jody: With the Open House clients....they had inquired about loans and were told they'd need to do a 80/20 interest only loan. NOPE! I gave them basic info on VA loans and that made all the difference in the world. I knew what I was talking about....and also had a LO do a flyer for the listing I had with program info...including VA. I also have guest sign in sheets with their info and ask if they would like me to email them some info. I follow up with emails but nothing we can do to "make" them follow through. If there is a contact number I call asap.
You never know when they will be ready or if they will actually buy. Some of the ones I least expected turned out to be the best clients.
Neal: Because you wouldn't :)
Randy: Exactly!
Dawn: That is a known fact (for us who do stay in touch :) and it is those that are thinking in the best interest of their soon to be clients are the ones who will succeed.
Royal: It is vital for all parties involved to have a successful outcome. You're welcome and have a great day!
Hi Sally,
Everybody starts off this way... but when they find the right agent who takes the time and listens to their needs the end result is a new home! :)
Kathy: That's for sure! I often wonder just how many slip through the cracks only to move on to an attentive and caring agent :)
BB: I'll stick with the nice ones :) There have been a few where our personalities clashed and I just moved on.
Joan: Yup...that's the old saying and it is surely a sad to know how many the clients have spoken to....before they met me :)
Teri: Exactly! And this ought to be helpful to new agents and a reminder to seasoned ones too :)
Suzanne: Lucky us,huh?
Chris: Now that a romance story if I ever heard one! Good job! :)
George: And that's the way it is.... they remain loyal to the ones who gave them the time, the care and listened....woohoo!
Marc: No kidding! My thinking is not as everyone else...therefore, my assumptions are just that....and we'll keep it back there :)
Audrey: Now...of course I'll keep in touch.... :) Who knows if I'll still be around though lol! I mean...in twenty years....I'll be 70.
Carole: You're such a doll. Thanks and hey...potentials are real people...with real dreams and desires. Who's to say they won't change their mind in time, place and circumstance..... it all depends and I'll be right there :)
Sally-I think all of us have different attributes we bring to our clients. I don't think everyone is cut out to wait....and that's OK, because as you stated...someone else will get those clients,someone like you. I think that many of us are niche Agents, we don't do everything and shouldn't try to be everything to everyone. I believe you have to be ultra organized to keep up with someone for that long of a time.
Well now that I've stated what "I" think...let's get back to what "you" think....and how well it works for you, and the clients you've so successfully assisted. Wonderful my friend :)
Morning Sally,
Great post! We too take all the potential buyers that the other Agents don't have time for, Currently we are working with a number of buyers that won't be ready until next season, as is the case with two listers. They don't want to go on the market until fall. Well --- we are ready when they are. The relationship is established and regular contact maintained. The rest will follow, that's part of our job and, guess what, we love it!
Have a great Sunday!
Woo-Hoo: No truer words were ever spoken by a REALTOR. This post is so accurate! Good job and congrat's on the STAR!!!!
One of the nice things about being on the Internet for a while is that past clients can "reach out and find you" easily.
Sally,
Your observations are so true...one of the things I have learned is that 'things are rarely the way they seem'...may sound trite, but it lends credence to what you're saying here!!! Also, every contact, buyer or not, is a potential future client or 'lead generator'!!! Thanks, Fran
Sally~
Like you, we are in a relocation-location where second/vacation homes and land require thoughtful observation by buyers. Long ago we decided at our Firm that a long sell-cycle was just fine with us...and it has worked so well. Thanks for this post that confirms the concept that fast is not always "healthy" for business.
Kathy: I suppose I decided long ago the niche thing for me was helping "everyone" that needed help.
Terrylynn: I believe the best thing I can do is "listen", be attentive, patient and caring. Like I said, this isn't a grocery store line for me or the clients that let me represent them.
Russ: Isn't that the truth! The transaction that closed on Friday....we looked at 14 properties the first day...four the next (two were the same of the day before) and they decided. I have seen the ones that weed certain ones out and pick what they want.
Hal: It is part of my job too. It doesn't take but interest, attentiveness, caring and patience so that a client knows they are important and that their needs I'm listening to.
Missy: The ones that I feel are serious are the ones that contact one of the local lenders I suggest and then set them up with the auto notification of listings for their criteria. The ones looking for friends or family members are not ones I consider serious....otherwise, their friend or family member can call me.
Kat; Thanks! It is astounding how many calls or emails I receive mentioning they didn't get attention from an agent. Now, if I respond and they don't email back....well, nothing to pursue there.
Right on target Fran! I know that not everyone has the same thinking as I do...so wrong to assume or presume what the intentions are of the consumer who emails, calls and I suppose it's the same as communicating without being face to face...i.e. AR and online connecting....
janeAnne! So true....for me it's been 'healthy' thinking to go this route. Some think it's just a business....for me a lot of my clients have remained loyal....and become friends :)
Richard: It sure will...and you know what? When it comes to completion....the reward you feel is tenfold!
Diane: No kidding. And others will find out that no matter what kind of market....it makes us better agents, people to care...to listen....to be there.
Robert: Yup....and I still can't believe how many do not give someone the time of day as soon as they say they won't be coming until.... that's okay...it's us that picks up where they didn't even start :)
Diane: Now that's a perfect example too! Good thing you had a Realtor® that listened :)
Jason: I love getting to know them ahead of time. I love getting to know them on short notice to. Whatever the case...it's rewarding when it happens....because we did a good job....by caring and being attentive to their needs.
Virginia: Makes me wonder too....bottom line....I'm there to make it happen for them...whenever they're ready :)
Sally,
What a great post, something everyone should read!
Hey Jane Leilani! Good to see you running around ActiveRain! Now I have to go see if you wrote something. Yup....and the best time to buy are all different ,....situations...circumstances...and that is what will determine.
Hey everyone! Leilani is from our office!
Nanette: Yup....never know...gotta stay on top of it or we'll miss out on everything.
Katerina. thanks.